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My cousin's grandmother passed away a couple years ago... She was cremated, it was done at this funeral home and there were lots of people... the "stove" or "fire place" was in the basement... She was in an open casket with her face showing just like most funerals... everyone would walk by her, look at her, weep, mumble stuff, offer flowers (well its from a big bowl of pedals that are already cut off).... then a holy guy would chant mantras and talk about her life etc..... then finally she was tooken downstairs in the basement where the oven is, maybe 4 men carried her down there with her closest ones following... most of us stayed upstairs lookin sad... then after all this crying, I hear her burn into ashes... u hear the crematory or whatever it's called fire up and the sound of wind flames and the hollow inside... and hear her burning, there's the strong smell of smoke... and meanwhile a bunch of people burst into crying.... then we went home and it was quiet...