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I tried making my way down there the other day to see how far it really is but what I realized was theres no way in hell this girls gonna go down there with me at night unless I have her on my back. Which would be pretty dangerous since its going to be dark and the stairs are in pretty bad condition.

I don't think it matters anyway I think the pressure was too much and our relationship is over...

Thanks though guys I really appreciate it...

gypsywanderin wrote:

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sorry to hear that, slasher. Maybe the quest itself was trying to tell you something.I remembered the first time I really fell in love, then the first marriage (two different girls) My ex-wife how was the one who why I hanged at the cliffs so much. It was the closest hiking place or a place to just sit and talk or to not.Gee we even made love there in the pouring rain. Back then she used to be active... now by looking at her now I am sorry to say she don't.(she remarried) I just hope someday you find many spots to go and that someone special to take there.Sometimes you might find your self there alone.I have been rock climbing there soooo many times by myself it's just plain crazy! I found myself praying to God one time about 3 winters ago while looking for small caves by the G.W. bridge (in weird nj no less) on a Sunday afternoon... the crevice I went up had a boulder , at first while looking up I thought I could fit under it, but after I climbed up, no room, so I decided to go over. I ended up kneeling on the rock when I looked down I could no longer see the small ledges I used to get there. Going forward was a commitment! I had to take the weight off my knees and give an effort to throw my body uphill and grab onto the top of the rock. the only thing as I thought of at the time was how peaceful the moment was ....with that view

Yes, you have it spot on in my situation as the Alpine lookout was the place where I took this girl out on our first day together alone. I still remember there was a thick layer of ice on the ground and she slipped and I broke her fall perfectly. I spend a lot of time at the look outs and the cliffs and plan on extensively hiking the area soon it just has a really peaceful quality to it in general. In fact, when I was about to join the military and considering it seriously I used to spend tons of time at the cliff in the woods by Alpine Lookout. Do you know any other really cool places by the cliffs?

And thank you so much your reply made me feel a lot better about everything and I have found myself come back to it several times when im upset.

sneezehorse wrote:

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sorry...wish it could have worked out. Unfortunitely, the coolest places are usually the ones that are tougher to get to.

Yeah, tell me about it she was definetely the one and I feel like any other girl will always just be second best. I just hope she remembers the way I feel about her forever and never really forgets me. I really would like to be a part of her because she is a huge part of who I am today. Anyways, thanks for the help sneeze you area always helpful and if I ever get the chance I will bring her down there. If you know any other places please do PM me...By the way my cousin is still interested in your hikes I will give him your information again and he should get in touch with you pretty soon. He unfortunately has been having trouble freeing up his weekend to take part and thats why he hasn't been able to come through. It was really nice of you to take your time out and show your concern for my situation. I consider everyone on this site as part of my extended family and if anyone here ever needs help I will always be here for you guys. I owe it to you guys!

thefirecat wrote:

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....so, I'm hearing "just give in to gravity" sneeze.

Slasher, that sucks. Hopefully she'll at least appreciate that you were trying to be there for her. Who's to say....maybe it helped her, even tough the relationship is over. And I don't want to give you false hope, but people do weird stuff when they're under emotional stress, so you never know.

Yeah, I am ALWAYS going to be here for her and I am sure she knows that because in my eyes she can't do any wrong. I know that this girl is the one and I will wait and even if I do move on to a new relationship I will always be available for her.

sneezehorse wrote:

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If I find anything else cool up Bergen direction I'll let you know...the easiest spot to get to that might be secluded enough is part of Tenafly Nature Center's boardwalk area. The western side of the pond is hardly ever used and has a nice dock out onto the pond. Only about a five minute walk from the parking lot.

Thanks buddy! Anything out of the county is fair game as well as long as its totally worth the drive.